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TJ- infidelity
anything you wouldn't do with someone else in front of your partner, outside of frivolous flirting and other minor exceptions, is infidelity to me.
If one hides something from a partner because they wouldn't approve (or kill you), means that either the relationship is in jeopardy enough to make one want to stray in advance, or the relationship was lacking in sexual fulfillment, or had been over for a LONG time.
No matter how harmless, even the slightest tryst exemplifies that you feel your desire comes before their importance to you. Cheating means either the relationship should just be over, was already over, or the other person isn't good enough for you to not want to be faithful.

P.S. - Holly is a plant and strait is a waterway.


stem cell research-
Just like with religion, everyone has their own individual moralities, their own set of personal boundaries that either parallel or extend outside of organized spirituality -

you think it's wrong, that's fine
other people don't that's fine too
the debate should stop there

the right to have an abortion should not be taken away just because you think your own morality is more superior than anyone elses

you have the right to be against it, absolutely -
but it's highly unfair to be angry that not everyone feels they should bow to your disapproval -
you may hate everyone that disagrees with you, but a little silly that you think your ideals should trump someone else's possession of the contents of their uterus-
not your territory -
not your decision -

your stance is your stance, but my uterus is my uterus - worry about yours and leave the rest of us alone-
pray or do whatever you do for the women that have abortions - but don't think that your distaste for killing an unborn "creature," as you put it, is so important that everyone should bow down to you.

Someone else's unborn child isn't your problem or your business, or anyone else's for that matter

everything happens for a reason - your God has constructed it that way -
so the genocide of tiny heartbeats is also a part of his plan -
if society can utilize the disposed goo of murder to help cure defects and disease - good for us - good for the future children who would benefit from any medical advances made from research on that material -

just like with eating meat - cows across the land are not going to stop being slaughtered just because you give a shit -
there will never be a boycott of meat -
what people eat is not your right to control just as someone's uterus is not your right to control

if the "tragedy" is not going to stop just for you - we might as well use the result to further help multiple other lives - one destroyed could have the possibility to cure millions-

i drove my girlfriend to and from the abortion clinic - though, of course, not a pleasant experience, I was in agreement that she did the right thing -
she now owns a house, is getting married, and none of that would have happened if prior she were a single mother incapable of funding a child -

adoption - always a possibility, sure, but if you research orphanages -you'll find that there are very few beds available and only getting much much worse

Bill Hicks once joked that if pro-lifers were that serious about people dying why aren't they chaining themselves to cemetary gates.
"Have you ever noticed that the ones against abortion are people you wouldn't want to fuck in the first place?" - George Carlin

Sorry, I digressed.
If being an under-aged, single parent is peaches to you - so be it -
if it comes up, have the baby, knock yourself out
i'm cool with whatever you think is right for you, whether the world follows your example or not

if all women should give birth just because you think they should, even though they can't provide for them,
maybe they should just start sending all the infants you were able to "save" to your house, if you want them to live so badly.
Encourage the all those religiously pesky deviants that killing an unborn child is wrong by stepping up and telling them you will be more than happy to raise it since they abided by your moral standards.

So, believe what you believe - there's nothing wrong with that - I have no problem wiht your opinion whatsoever - but try to understand that your opinion is not more important than another person's right to make their own decisions .

life and death as we know it, doesn't revolve around you -
rule your own womanhood and embrace the fact that you are not the dictator of anyone else's body or mind.

you don't approve - so what
you think it's a crime - so what
other people don't - so fucking what

I aware this sounds like I am lashing out. that's not my intention, i assure you - my point is only that you take care of your own womb because that's your business and let the rest of us do the same because that's none of your business.

No research links needed. That's just how it is.

P.S. it was released not too long ago that stem cell research can be done from liposuction fat.
Here's to fat asses and unborn children making the world a holier place for Gen.
Eat up, fuckers!
Hell, we might even be able to knock out gluttony as a deadly sin.
Strange and intriguing thought that all aborted fetus will be spared stem cell studies before dumped in the landfill only because some chicks decided to have two cheeseburgers.