The "why not" is outweighing the "why." But, of course, the "why" is because I care, so that trumps the "why not", right? So, why is it not?

I love and have loved many people without consequence or exception, but I can never remember fucking without them.

"I invited you because I thought you would have a good time and I'm NOT sleeping with you."
Why not?
"Because I want to have a good time."